How can I get my husband to be to wear lilac to our wedding?

I want him to wear a lilac vest and tie

How can I get my husband to be to wear lilac to our wedding?
let a man retain his last shred of dignity. if he is old enough to marry you he should be old enough to dress himself.
Reply:Maybe he%26#039;d go for a darker shade of purple.... And, it is *his* day too. If this is the only problem you have, you%26#039;re doing just fine.
Reply:Lilac? Can you at least wait until AFTER the wedding before you remove his genitals?


He should just kill himself right now and end this misery...
Reply:Get him very drunk...then ask. I am sure it will seem like a wonderful idea to him then.
Reply:It%26#039;s his wedding, too. Let him have some say. The wedding is only one day, the marriage is a lifetime. Don%26#039;t start your life with him by trying to force him to be someone he%26#039;s not. Men already fear that from their wives, don%26#039;t give him anything to worry about before you%26#039;re even married.
Reply:I think he should be able to choose what he wants to wear. Did he choose your wedding gown?
Reply:I tried for pink, but lost!





How about having the groomsmen wear the lilac vets and tie? Then, your hubby could wear a white vest and tie. He%26#039;ll be more noticeable as the groom and he can also keep his masculinity.
Reply:Suggest it, and if he says %26quot;no,%26quot; forget it. You%26#039;ll end up married regardless of what color his tie is.
Reply:Why don%26#039;t you get him a gown also, instead of a tux. Let him be him. If this is the start then what will happen later. You are joking right.
Reply:Tell him is could have been pink instead that you asked him to wear. No just kidding. Explain the whole color thing to him and maybe he will go with it. Or just have him wear a white vest with the colored tie. Maybe he will go for that. Hope this helps and that he cooperates. I was afraid my fiance would not cooperate but he is. Perhaps time will change his mind.
Reply:How about settling for the man!! And not what he looks like! Pale gray will do just fine next to lilac..
Reply:If he doesn%26#039;t want to wear it then don%26#039;t force him to wear it! Trust me I%26#039;m sure he would rather see you walk down the aisle naked than wear a white gown but has the good graces not to ask you to do so.
Reply:he might be willing to if the coat and pants are black.if you will meet him half way. he might meet you half way.
Reply:Humm???


got any prozac lying around you could slip into his drink?





If you do manage it please let us know so all us real men can come laugh at him and toss womens undergarments at him...


He%26#039;s a Wuss if he lets you get away with that you know
Reply:Choose someone else! If you are not willing to respect his strong feelings against something now, then you are headed for divorce court.





I think that, depending how you hook it up, lilac would be acceptable for a male to wear. However, I%26#039;m not your man, and your man ways no. Either A. Choose another color, 2. Find another fiance, or D. Go nude.





Seriously, it may seem a small thing to you, but talk to him and find out why he objects. Respect his views. This will help him respect yours.
Reply:dont do that to him... come on lilac.. how about hues of blue or green but not lilac...
Reply:Remember, the wedding day is about the groom too - it%26#039;s not all about you. Let the man wear what looks best on him and what he feels most comfortable in - and I can guarantee you it%26#039;s not Lilac.
Reply:Goodluck! just pick another color or a dark purple. Compromising wont help either. I am still debating over pink but it doesnt look like I am going to win. Yes, it is both your wedding - I used it - doesnt work!





However, if he wants something you dont, then you bring in the color. And he still wont see this as compromising...
Reply:Are you sure about this? How about just one or the other? Sometimes it looks good if all the groomsmen are wearing the %26quot;color%26quot; and the groom is in the more formal black and white, or grey and white, or tan and white. There are going to be lots of photos, and he has to feel comfortable. Come up with a compromise you both can live with.
Reply:you could just compromise--if he does this for you, you could do something special for him.
Reply:why not just ask him, or find a vest and tie that has lilac flecks in it then have the flower he wears be a lilac or that color.



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